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Laura Sammons's avatar

You really put it all together.

Living more deeply, more fully, more connectively is another way to put less focus on end of life (ie time and sense of self) and more on actually living life. When my husband died relatively young eight years ago I eventually came to terms with his death by telling myself his story had come to a close, it was complete. Rather opposite to the idea of continuation after death. The idea of forever (eternity) is not comprehensible to me. Another thing that helps me is recognizing that the present requires presence to experience it in a fulfilling way. Not an easy task with memory and imagination. It is good to be reminded in your writing about what Kingdom of Heaven actually means. I think people get caught up in the word kingdom. Another word might have been better.

Because our egoist sense of self likes a sense of identity, order, certainty control it is easy to see how the cultural, religious, and political structures are organized with these human tendencies in mind. As you explain fear and love underlies it all. As a therapist I teach about letting go and detachment but it is hard to do in practice for all of us. It is hard because we need connection and self awareness. In fact we seem to be made for those things in how our brain and nervous system is wired, and how infants begin to sense their bodies as separate. But it is also comforting that we are connected to everything else, everything in nature and the universe, and all of this experiences birth, life and death.

I have a strong memory of my daughter, only around six or seven bursting into tears and voicing her realization that someday she would lose me to death. Our instinct to survive is indeed a two edged sword.

In my case there is also a measure of curiosity, what’s next? I suppose looking at my life, all of our lives as a story, (mystery, comedy, drama, melodrama, sci fi all of the above!)

Of course in a purely practical and reality based level death is necessary to give way to new life. There is only so much room. But is an afterlife necessary to life?

A moment or an hour can feel timeless and big, other times can feel too short, yet other times seem to drag. Our sense of time along with sense of self adds up to fear of death which is fear of loss of time and loss. Life is so vivid and so mysterious at the same time.

You wrote a book worthy article.

Yana M's avatar

Thank you. This beautifully traced every angle of exploration. I think the Bible Project reworks the traditional doctrines and strives to present this version of heaven with the potential to be truly human now in the present: to co-create and flourish in peace with one another. Aside from outsourcing the ability to do so through the agency of Jesus, they seem to promote hope and a familiar new creation on earth that is desperately desired.

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