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Tomi Petrella's avatar

"The social manufacturing of human identity" is an accurate description of the the "ego" or conditioning itself.

I follow a Buddhist sangha (Livingcompassion.org) that actively promotes and provides numerous tools to assist in thethe deconstruction of the ego, while pointing us towards consciousness itself.

Learning to live in ambiguity (the I- don't-know mind) is the ultimate expression of freedom. Understanding how my entire perception is "me" and the world are completely projections from my conditioning has been a rewarding, frustrating challenge.

James Irving's avatar

I was living in a multi-ethnic city where people would commonly describe each other by reference to the other person’s presumed race or ethnic group. One day, at work, a “white guy” (let’s say) came in looking for Mr X, who happened to be, a “black guy” (let’s say). Instead of saying “Oh yes he’s the black guy who sits around the corner”, I said, “He’s sitting around the corner, I think he’s wearing a red shirt today.” About half an hour later the “white guy” walked past me on the way out and gave me a very long stare with a screwed up expression which amused me a lot. You’re right that these kinds of category systems are relational but they are also hierarchical. “Flesh-colored” means pink, despite the fact that the majority of people in the world aren’t pink. And so starts the struggle to be reclassified as an “honorary white person”. People who belong to a group that in one generation were despised as immigrants who ate strange food and spoke English badly, in following generations do the same to newer immigrants from other lands and cultures. Or not. It’s up to us whether we want to play that game. And if we don’t, we may get stared at occasionally.

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