I am currently writing a new book, The Practice of Being Alive: Modern Humans in Search of Ground in a Nihilistic Age. It explores what it means to live with clarity, agency, and depth in an age where inherited sources of meaning have lost their authority but nothing stable has replaced them.
Rather than presenting a finished product, I am publishing chapters here as working drafts and inviting readers into the process as the book develops.
This is not early access for passive consumption. It is an invitation into the work itself. The reflections, questions, and friction points that emerge through dialogue often help sharpen the ideas.
If this project resonates with you, I invite you to become a paid subscriber and participate in the conversation as the book takes shape.
Part II: Cosmic Grounding (Chapter Eleven)
A Place for What Exceeds You
Most of the difficulties we face can be brought back within the boundaries of ourselves.
We can think about them, discuss them, analyze them, prepare for them, make plans around them. Even when life becomes difficult, we often retain the sense that it remains fundamentally manageable.
And then something arrives that exceeds those boundaries.
It is too large for the size of you.
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